Here's my guess based on years of watching NHK taiga dramas (and
since a little knowledge is a dangerous thing, hopefully there will
be others here to confirm or deny my thoughts).
I don't recall hearing ~San, but I do remember hearing ~Han used on
Samurai in Sengoku period Kyoto/Kansai, so ~San might have been in
use in other places...(?)
Tono or Oyakatasama seems to be used to address a lord directly (from
samurai to lord), and I think Tono-sama is used to refer to the lord
when talking to someone else (I don't know the difference in usage
between Oyakatasama and Tono when speaking to a lord, but I think
Oyakatasama is even more polite (or puts the lord higher up)
than 'Tono'....
I think that when 'equal' samurai speak with each other, they seem to
stick ~Dono on the end (Hayashi-dono) etc. And I think -Sama is used
this way as well.
All this goes for higher up samurai, as most Taiga drama and others
mainly deal with that level. I have no idea how ashigaru address each
other.
hopefully others here can clarify - now I'm curious. But another
option in fiction would be to scrap the Japanese titles altogether
and use the english equivalents (Lord Hayashi) (Yes, my lord) stuff
like that...
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samuraihistory@yahoogroups.com, "Thomas Davidson
" wrote:
> I'm seeking clarification on forms of address within samurai
> circles in the late Sengoku era.
>
> Was "san" used in this period?
>
> What is the proper usage of the term "sama"? I know it's used
> following a name, but then so is "dono" and "tono" (or are they
> two spellings of the same word).
>
> Recently I've been informed of "oyakata-sama".
>
> I'm working on a fiction piece, and trying to get the forms of
> address right, so a broadside of questions if anyone's got the
> time or inclination to answer:
>
> Form of address between samurai of equal status but different
> han.
>
> Form used by samurai of equal status with in same han.
>
> Form used by commoners addressing samurai.
>
> Form used by samurai referring to his lord (to his lord).
>
> Form used by samurai referring to his lord (to another samurai
> - either within or outside the han).
>
> Form used by samurai referring to another's lord.
>
> I think you get the idea.
>
> Any help appreciated,
>
> Thomas